Spandex, Wait, Is This A Joke?

When I first met Master, he confessed to me that one of his biggest kinks is spandex.  As we drove or walked places, he would always point out women who were dressed in sports bras and spandex pants and tell me how he liked this outfit or that.  I remember one day (I don’t know why I was surprised) he mentioned wanting to see ME in spandex.  I truly thought he was making fun of my weight.

Up until that point, I had only known women personally who wore spandex either for two reasons:

1- They wanted to show off their bodies.


2- They genuinely couldn’t fit into anything else.

My mother had always painted spandex in a negative light for me as well, and would constantly make fun of her friend (who is a large woman) for not being able to fit into “ordinary clothing”.  Mind you, this was a tremendous contradiction because my mother lived in cotton pants-sets with a waist band instead of jeans with a zipper.  Growing up, no matter if I was 95 pounds, or 150, I was constantly picked on by my parents for my weight.  ALWAYS told I was fat.  My dad would call me “Thunder Thighs” as a nick name.  At the time, I wore a size 5 jeans, but he would always tell me if I wasn’t careful I was only going to fit into spandex soon.

Needless to say, growing up I had only heard negative things about spandex.  When Master asked me to wear it (this was a LONG time ago, back when we first met) I was completely shocked and truly felt like he was insulting my size, calling me fat and somehow “unworthy” of what my mother likes to call “regular clothes.”  I have never really felt like #1 in the above scenarios.  I have never wanted to show off my body.  Sure, I show off for the camera, but it somehow doesn’t feel like showing my body off.  To me, it feels more like showing my personality off.

It took a bit of convincing, but after he explained to me (I think it took me a few weeks to be comfortable, really, truly comfortable with the idea) I agreed to wear my gymnastics leotard around him.  I still had it, it is made from velvet, quite fuzzy, and very spandex-y.  Truth be told, I’m getting a little wet as I write this just thinking about all the petting and rubbing I got that night.  Hee hee.  The velvet made him not want to take his hands away, and the spandex-y second skin feeling was rather nice to me as well.  I had to admit it to myself.  Spandex could be sexy.  <3

Since that day I’ve acquired a lot more spandex clothing, and I feel a lot better about wearing them for Master or in public.  I’ve come to love the sensation.  In truth, I’ve got a big fetish for latex and vinyl (unfortunately, I need to revamp my latex and vinyl clothing, because I’ve either lost too much weight, or had to throw out said clothes for other reasons, like the vinyl getting too old, etc.) so it only makes sense that I would enjoy another material which feels like such a second skin to me.  I think it must also be why I love rope bondage and bondage tape.  I love that feeling of a “hug”, I love the feeling of security despite the sometimes helpless feeling you can also get.

We bought a new bathing suit recently which is spf 50 so I could go to the pool during the day with Master on the weekends without fear of getting burnt.  I felt really silly when I put it on.  I’m not sure why, but somehow my feelings of being too large a girl to look good in spandex came back to me.  Master says I look delicious.  He can’t keep his hands off of me when I wear it.  And when Master picks out pajamas for me to wear to bed, or a sexy “something” in a clothing store, I can’t help but love the fact that he goes for the sports bras and the jogging section of the store.  Wearing a sport bra to bed in really very comfortable. <3  And the fact that he finds it so sexy is a HUGE bonus too.

((As a side note, sorry there aren’t any spandex pictures with this entry.  Master has plans to take a few pictures of me and some rope and my new suit soon though, so they are coming.  ^^))

7 thoughts on “Spandex, Wait, Is This A Joke?

  1. Aw, poor dear- *hugs*. I myself struggled with body issues for about 5 years before I realised that everyone comes in different shapes and sizes and the point is that we work what we've got. Now, at the risk of sounding creepy, you're really gorgeous- skin, curves and all (I utterly LOVE that bondage pic you posted from your modelling days).
    I have to agree with Master that spandex is really sexy- I wear boyleg underwear that's at least 50% spandex and it's just hot to wear! If you can find any (or if you already have some, in which case good on you!), it looks and feels really wonderful and there isn't a doubt in my mind that Master'll love it.

    You're beautiful Faete.

    xo MM

    • redvinylkitty says:

      *Huggles* Thanks MM! :) That was really sweet of you. I'm a lot more confident in my own skin these days, just had that one day which was kind of a set back. :) Oh, and yes I've got a few pairs of spandex boy shorts. Master loves the kind which you bum kind of "peek out" of the bottom if you know what I mean.

      Mew mew. <3

  2. sanityraines says:

    Ahhhh! Spandex. (XD) I love it! I think when done right anyone can wear it. I have no doubt that you look very hot in something so slinky and smooth. Velvet spandex is even better since you can get that much closer to the feline side of yourself. As far as your weight is concerned I think you're beautiful. I enjoy seeing the photos you post because they only magnify your natural beauty. If you are interested you and Master should check out some zentai suits (full bodied spandex suit). I bought one last Halloween for my tree costume and really didn't want to take it off at the end of the night because it felt soooo yummy! You get the option for a full-faced hood, open-faced hood, crotch zipper (I got one of those hehe!), gloves/no gloves, or no hood at all. You can also get them without feet (depending how claustrophobic one is).

    • redvinylkitty says:

      Hey Sanityraines! :)

      Thank you so much for being totally sweet. ^^ Oh, and we've been looking into a zentai suit. Master likes the ones without the hoods. There's so many things on our list to get I'm not sure when I'll get around to getting one, but he is excited. Oh yes. :-) lol.

  3. lostmaverick says:


    Wow, normally its your HNT pics that leave me speechless, but your parents behavior has topped that. *hug* First off, your beautiful, no matter your size or style. I don't know if your parents are just brainwashed by our "size 0 should be the norm" society or what, but they were wrong to treat you that way on so many levels. I'm not that big a fan of spandex myself (nothing wrong with it, just not my cup of tea) but you should be able to wear what you want and feel sexy in it without having to worry about what other people think.

    • redvinylkitty says:

      Hey Maverick!

      Yeah, my parents are kind of just not the best at maturity. *sighs* It's all good though. I'm much more comfortable in my own skin nowadays, I just had that one little back track the other day. I appreciate your sentiments though. *huggles* Mew mew. lol.